The AC effect, a new name for Carers respite for you xo
Proactive choices are harder than events imposed on us. I've always been impatient for clarity, so I spent time analysing, laying out pros and cons, reviewing my priorities and getting myself to back my decision (it's the researcher analyst in me!) - ie ensure I was committed 100% and wouldn't allow myself to be drawn into what ifs or regrets. Once done, decision was complete, it was a milestone anchor with rationalised whys and tradeoffs done.
It sounds especially hard when Shujin is an integral part of keeping things running smoothly. Every system needs wheels and cogs and leaders but humans only have only 1 life and time is precious - sorry very cliché. I hope Shujin is okay, and a solution presented itself for his work or he & you all came to a clear way forward.
I learnt that being invaluable and indispensable is only really good if we're appropriately recognised and cared for. Otherwise, systems/people are capitalising on us, our goodwill.
The AC effect, a new name for Carers respite for you xo
Proactive choices are harder than events imposed on us. I've always been impatient for clarity, so I spent time analysing, laying out pros and cons, reviewing my priorities and getting myself to back my decision (it's the researcher analyst in me!) - ie ensure I was committed 100% and wouldn't allow myself to be drawn into what ifs or regrets. Once done, decision was complete, it was a milestone anchor with rationalised whys and tradeoffs done.
It sounds especially hard when Shujin is an integral part of keeping things running smoothly. Every system needs wheels and cogs and leaders but humans only have only 1 life and time is precious - sorry very cliché. I hope Shujin is okay, and a solution presented itself for his work or he & you all came to a clear way forward.
I learnt that being invaluable and indispensable is only really good if we're appropriately recognised and cared for. Otherwise, systems/people are capitalising on us, our goodwill.